Mein Deutsch nicht gut!

It's have been about a year plus since my last German lesson back in uni. I started the leisure course from the Absolute Beginner level for 2 terms in my 2nd year. Then 2 terms of Post-Beginner during my final year of uni. In fact, I did think of going to take up German course in Germany after graduation. But, it's just damn expensive to do that. I had to forget bout this option.

Yesterday evening, I had my first German lesson after a year plus. Due to the lack of practices and revisions, I have lost the touch in speaking and listening. Dun even mention all the hardcore German grammar. Masculine, feminine or neutral! Fortunately, my reading skill is still up to the level. (P/S: applause please..... :-) ) Hope that the 1-1 session can really help me in improving my German pronunciation.

The tutor is a Moroccan, who can understand Arabic, French, German, Spanish and English. Oh man, he beats me. I could only understand Mandarin, Cantonese and English with lousy Malay and Hokkien, plus beginner level of German and Japanese. Wondering after how long only could I master all these not so good languages???

Talking bout Germany. I miss the trips to Berlin in Winter 2004 and to Munich in Summer 2005. The German Christmas Markets, sausages, beer and all the snacks. When will I be in Germany again. This year World Cup? I dun think so. It's too late to plan it now. I still remember when I first started uni, I planned to go to Germany this year for the World Cup. However, changing to the 3-years course, there vanished the idea.

Well, hope that I can improve my German and somedays I am able to blog with German. Hehe.... Tschüss

（性+爱）心=情

常常都有人在说：“男人都是用下半身思考的动物。”、“男生交女友，就是为了‘性’！”等等。言下之义，都是讽刺男人，把男人与‘性’画上等号！举个例子，常听女生说，在拒绝与男友发生性关系之际，男的多会说：“如果你爱我，为什么不能呢？”而女的，就回答：“如果你爱我，就不会逼我。我要先得到你的爱。”

过后会是怎样？我不知道，这不是重点。我只想，把我在这个阶段、对‘性’与‘爱’的看法，告诉大家。

男人并不把‘性’看得比‘爱’更重要。怎么说？就拿例子里的男生说吧。他告诉女的，若爱他就跟他有性行为。显然的，男生是要从性关系中，得到‘爱’！‘爱’对于他来说，是最终的目的。‘性’，只不过是那过程而已。就如小明偷面包一样，他并不喜欢偷窃，他只想要填饱肚子而已。不挨饿，才是他要的！

你在这时候很可能会说：“要得到‘爱’，不一定要靠‘性’啊！”对，你这样说是没错的。一切关键的，都在于两个人之间的沟通。我想做的，只不过想要把‘男’与‘性’之间的等号给删除。当然，你也不可以把爱人之间的关系，跟强奸猥亵行为或一夜情比较吧！

无性无爱，肯定不是每个人想要的。有性无爱，还是有爱无性？哪个才是你要的？我想，有性有爱，才会幸福美满。

两方在维持一段感情上，都要负一定的责任。要付出，也要接受。入不敷出，往往会造成感情破裂。心，也在主导着。要不然，‘性’、‘爱’、‘情’里就不会有‘心’啦！

最后，我要抛出一个问题：“如果，男生要从‘性’得到‘爱’。我可以说，女生可要从‘爱’得到‘性’，‘性’为最终目的吗？”见仁见智哦！只希望，大家不再把男人贴上‘性’之标签。


祝：天下有情人终成眷属。